First off, BIG CONGRATS to Monica Lonigan who won yesterday’s book! Enter today below.
So, are you in?
Is it time to give your hubby a little extra loving?
As I have been talking about here on the blog for a few days now, the whole month of October is going to be Husband Month here on the blog. We are gearing up for a lot of man lovin’ and I just have one question for you.
So, are you in?
Are you willing to step up and say “Yes! For 21 days I will spend 5 extra minutes a day loving my man on purpose. I will think about what he wants for dinner instead of just what my kids will eat. I will wear something to bed for one night that doesn’t have the word “GAP” printed on it! YES, I am ready for the challenge!”
Or, maybe it is just: “Yes, my friend has guilted me into it.”
Either answer is perfectly acceptable.
I know it is never a good time to work on this stuff. I know that you are busy and going into the holidays and you are the room mom and work is extra busy.
I promise, we are going to keep it fun. I am going to do a give away EVERY SINGLE DAY of the project. Lots of women will be sharing their wisdom, their stories and their recipes.
So, are you in?
If you are, let me know in the comments below before 9:00 pm PST on Tuesday and I will enter your name into Tuesday’s drawing. Then be sure to check back on Wednesday to see if you won.
I want every one of my blog readers to look back years from now and remember that October was one of the best months of your marriage.
So, are you in?


I’m in. I need some motivation on getting out of the “boring” groove.
I am so in! Can’t wait to see what happens next!
Thanks for doing this Kathi.
October brings back not so good memories. It will be 12 months that my husband and I have been separated. We have been working hard on reconciliation. So YES! I am in.
As an Amazon book reviewer and a husband, I’m intrigued enough to want to read it and review it.
I might even want to give it to someone else after I’ve read it….
My marriage is in desperate need of help and I’ve been selfishly saying “I’m not buding until he does.” I am so in need of showing my husband more love, count me in! =)
I need to focus more on him. I’ve known it for a while, but haven’t worked on it. I could use the extra push.
I’m in. I take this wonderful guy for granted far too often. He spoils me rotten & I often find myself too busy to consciously reciprocate. His birthday’s this month, what better time to start a new habit?!
Kathi this book looks fantastic. I like how practical it sounds. Many books on marriage give good overall concepts of what we should be doing as wives, but none as applicable-sounding as this.
Yes! I love challenges.
I am so in. My husband deserves so much moren praise than he gets. He is so wonderful and I often take him for granted or just don’t praie him enough. October will be all about him.
I’m in; buddy or not I’m doing this!
YES I AM IN!
I’m in! My husband is pretty stressed about his job right now and anything I can do to make him a little happier will be great!
I’m in. (even though I’m pretty ticked at my husband this morning, but I’m sure that will pass…and if it doesn’t I’ll make it pass!)
I am reluctantly in. My huibs and I have been at odds longer than I can remember and part of me is REALLY not ready to let go of my self-righteousness. I want to let it go though. I am ready to start working to put that aside though but really need prayers he will begin to give something back because I am feeling pretty dried out.
Me too!
I’m in! My hubby deserves the extra attention. Much was lost after baby number two came along. Thanks Kathi!
I’m in . I know my husband deserves the extra effort!
Yes! I missed doing it with my MOPs friends at St. Tim’s because it was the same time as a parenting class also held there. I’m glad you are doing it online.
i’m in but i gotta tell ya that sleepwear with the word GAP would be a step up for me;)
I AM IN!!!!!!!! The 28th will be our 3rd year anniversary so THP will make this month even more special. I’m sooo excited
I am definitely in. Anything I can do to encourage my hubby.
I’m in ! You knew I would be…! My hubby spoils me all the time…now it’s time for HIM ! (still don’t have my HP book back…)
Me too!!!
Count me in!! I still need a copy of the HP even though I participated in it prior to publishing!! Love and Hugs, Missy from Northside Church-Fresno/Clovis, CA
I’m IN!
I’m IN! Thankful this month to be doing the “project” again this month with you as my accountability partner.
My husband this morning made me coffee without my asking… AND got up with the kids! Proof that this project works!
I am in! We have had some problems this year and I have already started to do this but would love to take it to the next level!
Kathy:
I know I have meet you through the CCA or some such organization. I am a single girl, but have several friends who I think would love this book. (I would like to read it as well—you never know!!!) I will tell me friends about your site and your ministry.
I’m so in! Round #2, here we go!
I’m in! This month is our 10 year anniversary so this will help make the month even more special.
I’m in! My first attempt at this last year was “interrupted” by the birth of our baby. It’s time for be to really be intentional about loving him!
I’m in. Been putting this off for too long now!
I love my husband for always calling me his beautiful wife when he introduces me.
I am in and expecting God to do great things during this! He is able – even after 27 years of marriage – to accomplish His purposes through His transforming power to mold me into the woman and the wife He wants me to be.
Count me in. I’ve recenly gone back to school full time, coupled with a busy family, my husband is not getting the attention he deserves. Plus, after 18 years of marriage, it’s always a good idea to freshen up our relationship.
I’m in, can’t wait to see what this does for our relationship!
I am in. I love my Husband but I know I have not been acting loving toward him lately. I think the business of life has gotten to me and I am so busy just trying to get things done that I forget who I am trying to get things done for MY FAMILY!!!! I am lucky enough to be a stay at home mom and my husband is a Fire Captain and I need to let him know how much I appreciate him putting his life on the line everyday for Me and his two girls.
I’m in! I could definitely put more effort in serving my husband. I want him to know how much I appreciate him and the sacrifices he’s made for us.
I am in. I don’t typically do well with these sort of things, but I think that it would be helpful. I know that anything extra counts, and five minutes is very minimal time. So here we go!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m in – it’s time to focus on the hubby rather than myself and the kids! Plus the timing is perfect as your on-line edition culminates on our 8th anniversary!
I am in–My hubby needs me to be his cheerleader as he is going through many challenges!!!
I’m in. I’ve got my accountability partners lined up, too.
I would love to win this book. I would love the opportunity to read this book, and to learn to love my husband a little bit better and help my relationship out!
Yes, I’m in. I’ve had the book since spring when you came to speak at Calvary MOPS in Los Gatos. I’ve even read the book and have done a few exercises. This will help keep me accountable to complete it.
Thanks!
I’m in! We will be celebrating our 8th anniversary in October also!
Yes, I am in. I am just afraid with everything going on that I may not be able to follow through. I guess if I just keep going that will work too.
Ok, I’m in. Just got this from a friend of mine, but I’m up for the challenge!
Sure, I will give it a try. My husband is the best and he is definitely deserving. Looking forward to it!
Count me in!