Post-It Note Challenge – Write Something Fun or Flirty for Your Man!

Post-It Note Challenge – Write Something Fun or Flirty for Your Man!

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Post-It Note Challenge – Write Something Fun or Flirty for Your Man!

Ladies- are you ready to show you man a little love today? If so, here are your instructions:

  1. I want you to grab a Post-it (cause you know how much I love a Post-it!)
  2. Write something, fun, flirty, or a little scandalous on it – I give you permission…
  3. Put that Post-it somewhere where only HE will find it
  4. Tell us what you wrote on it (or if it’s Too Hot to Handle, just write TMI in the comments below)

“A simple word can renew hope.”

Lois Mayday Rabey

It can be words of encouragement, something flirty and sexy, sweet whispers and so on. Leave the post it where only he will find it. It can be in his briefcase, wallet, on his car steering wheel, underwear drawer, tool box, whatever he is going to open or use today. Below I listed 21 ideas to get you started thinking. If you need to use one from the list below or make up your own Post-It greeting.


21 Post-It-Sized Encouragements

  1. I’m praying for you today.
  2. Those jeans are really working for you…
  3. I love you.
  4. You are the best dad!
  5. You’re the kind of husband that makes the other wives jealous.
  6. You rock my world!
  7. Can’t wait to see you tonight – meet me upstairs…
  8. Thanks for working hard to provide for us. I appreciate all that you do.
  9. You make me feel beautiful.
  10. I thank God for you everyday.
  11. How did I get so lucky, being married to a guy like you?
  12. You’re great!
  13. You make everyday more fun.
  14. Have a great day.
  15. You’re hot!
  16. I feel so safe with you.
  17. Smart and good looking – I’ve got the whole package in you!
  18. You can be very distracting, you know…
  19. Our kids are so blessed to have a dad like you.
  20. That smile I wear – it is all because of you.
  21. God have blessed me in big ways by letting me be your wife.

Remember, you have more power than you know to change the direction of your husband’s day. Go grab that Post-it right now!

Let us know what you wrote in the comments below, and three of you are going to win THE HUSBAND PROJECT book and DVD set!!!


  1. your amazing and your the type of husband that makes other wives jealous!!!
    I love you

    • That’s ours too! ;-)

  2. I’m proud of you. Thank you for working so hard for us:)

  3. I once left a special “picture book” under my husband’s pillow with a note on his pillow that said, “Look under here!” I left it at a time I knew I was taking the kids out of the house for a little while and only he would find it. Unfortunately, my 5 year old walked in to my room and shouted, “Hey Look! Someone left a note for Daddy!! It must have been the tooth fairy!!!” After that, I’ve learned to find better hiding places for my most “special” notes!

  4. I can’t wait to marry you all over again! (he recently lost his wedding ring and is in the process of replacing it)

  5. “I love you.”

  6. You are my heaven! Is what I placed in my husbands closet, because he is my heaven on earth.

  7. You’re my favorite LEGO!
    (We used to say this when we were dating because we fit so well together)

    • We actually say the same thing to each other!

  8. Elephant Shoes. We’ve been saying it to each other for almost 20 years (since we were dating). If you look in the mirror when you say it, it looks like you are saying “I love you”. :)

  9. I appreciate you for working so hard for us!! And You can be very distracting u know…which should be related to when we first met and started dating…

  10. I love and appreciate you beyond words. I am proud of the man i am able to say is my husband!! I love you to the moon and back =)

  11. Thank you for working so hard for our family. I love you!

  12. My husband works 2 hours away and stays in an apartment during the week. I post-it’d thanking him for sacrificing his precious time away from home to provide for me and out teenage sons! He’s the best!

  13. ” you + me = three ” :)

  14. ” you + me = three ” :)

  15. My husband used to do this all the time when he left for work before I woke up. It was so sweet. Now he just tells me he loves me since we are getting ready for work at the same time.

  16. I literally just did this for my husband a couple days ago, before I found this pinned on pinterest! I left him four.

    Under his pillow: I feel so safe and happy to sleep next to you
    Behind his shave gel: Those piercing blue eyes melt my heart every time you laugh at me
    In the pocket of his flannel shirt: I love how you look like a yummy lumberjack when you wear this!
    In his dress shoes: I love how you stand firm for everything that is best and true for us.

    He’s found the first two so far, the last two are yet to be discovered…. it’s really fun. :)

  17. About a year ago I wrote the words ‘I love you because…’ on our bathroom mirror in lipstick and use post it’s to fill in the blank. Sometimes he writes them too. I’ve kept them all in a comp notebook and plan to reuse it maybe at our wedding :)

  18. When my husband and I first started dating, he put a little red heart on both sides of the screen door right next to the knob so I would see it, A year later, he traces over the hearts when they start to fade, I leave him notes in his lunch box all the time and we both leave messages on the bathroom mirror all the time, but I have to say the funniest note he left me would be on the toilet paper roll, I looked at the roll and he had unrolled it and wrote “I LOVE YOU” several times and rolled it back up, He really is the kind of husband that makes other wives jealous….He’s my second marriage and my forever HUSBAND. I love my Babe

  19. Totally just tried to text my hubby one of these… “You ate the kind of husband that makes other wives jealous!” Thanks for that auto-correct!

    • Oh my – totally giggled over that one. Sounds like something that would happen to me.

  20. I love you honey. Thank you for working so hard to provide for us :)

  21. I have four written for my husband. I will put one in his Kindle cover, one in his laptop, one in his briefcase, and one in his statistics textbook.

    They say:

    “I love you!”
    “You are my Sexy Eyes.”
    “I am blessed to have you in my life.”
    “You can be very distracting, you know!”

  22. You coat my world in awesome sauce.

  23. I texted my hubby: Thanks for all the things you do around here! And left the following on a note for him in his lunch bag: Thanks for working so hard at such a difficult job to provide for us.

  24. I am so blessed to spend my life with you… Thanks for all the laughs- here’s to many more. 1-10? (Our secret code…)

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  26. I write my boyfriend 2-3 post it notes and put them in his appointment book, wallet, and attach to his dresser in the mornings. It makes him smile every day and makes life so much happier!



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