(Kathi here. This is one of my favorite speakers, Cheri Gregory and I could not be more excited about this project. Join, participate, and, if you’re like me, stop being sarcastic for a while. Really. No, I’m not joking…)

As I thumbed through a copy of A Complaint-Free World five years agoI considered myself the most optimistic, positive, encouraging (and obviously humble) person I knew.


In fact, I joked to my husband that we needed to buy two (maybe three) dozen copies to give the long list of negative people in my life who drag me down with their never-ending complaints, criticism, and gossip.


Than I read a little farther. And the author had the nerve to suggest that of all the negative people in my life, I might be the worst of the worst!


That. Made. Me. Mad.


So I decided to take the author’s Complaint-Free challenge: 21 days with no complaining. Just to prove how wrong he was, I even ordered his silly little purple bracelet.


The instructions were simple:  I was to start each day with the bracelet on my left wrist. As soon as I caught myself complaining, criticizing, or gossiping, I was to move the bracelet to the other wrist.


For accountability, I told my students what I was doing.


Big mistake.


Did my students ever warm up to the “challenge.” In the first class, my bracelet switched arms five times in just three minutes!


The shocker was that each time took me totally by surprise. I wasn’t even thinking critical thoughts, when suddenly, “Mrs. G? Is that complaining I hear?”


I soon discovered that my optimistic self-image resembled reality the way a chick flick resembles marriage: hardly at all.



Sound Familiar?


Maybe you’ve experienced some of the same warning signs I have. See if you identify with any of the following statements:


___ “My life would be much easier without the negative people who drag me down.


___ “I speak Sarcasm fluently.”


___ “When I see a type-o on a sign, I have to point it out to someone.”


___ “I’m surrounded by difficult people at work and/or at home.”


___ “It’s not really gossip; everything we say about her is true.”


___ “There’s an impossible person in my life who will never change.”


___ “I struggle with anxiety, fear, and/or depression.”


___ “Negative things people have said keep popping back into my mind.”


If two or more sound familiar, you’re invited to take The PURSE-onality Challenge!



What is The PURSE-onality Challenge?


Quite literally, it’s 31 days of replacing “baditude” with God’s word and gratitude, May 1-31 (with a warm-up week starting April 22.)


I’ve tried the Complaint-Free challenge many times in the last five years. But just trying to stop old bad habits was never enough; I needed to start new ones to replace the old.


So for one month, we’ll be focusing on four positive habits: spotlighting Personality strengths, eliminating complaints, journaling gratitude, and memorizing scripture.



Take The PURSE-onality Challenge if…


…you feel convicted to change your thoughts and words.


…you’re at your wit’s end with a particular relationship.


…you desire more hope, joy, and peace in your life.


Check out our website to sign up!


You’ll also find three free audio messages:

Let’s Get PURSE-onal!

Personality Puzzle for Parents of Preschoolers


Healthy Marriages Major in History (NOT Math!) 


plus a free e-Book: Top 10 Priceless Gifts that Don’t Cost a Dime for Each PURSE-onality!




Enter to win a free copy of The PURSE-onality Challenge journal and a set of 31 laminated Bible verse cards! Leave a comment telling what changes you’d most want to see in your life from taking The PURSE-onality Challenge!





Cheri Gregory has been married to her pastor/teacher/musician college sweetheart, Daniel, for 23 years. The Gregorys are enjoying their newly “empty nest,” now that Jonathon (19) has joined Annemarie (21) at college. Cheri is a high school English teacher and Christian speaker/author. Connect with her via Facebook, cheri@cherigregory.com, and www.CheriGregory.com.