Roger and KathiOK – Sometimes I am not a very good wife.

I get cranky and selfish and stomp my foot and don’t want to do the Stupid Husband Project.

And, sometime, world famous wonderful Roger, well – he is still pretty wonderful, but there are days when we both look at the group of step-kids we have running around this house and think, “Really? This was a good idea?”

The reality is that marriage with all of it’s blessings, is really, really hard. And sometimes I don’t like hard.

If you are in the spot where you are really not liking the project, I understand. I wrote the project and sometimes, I don’t like it.

I would love to hear what the biggest challenges have been for you. I know it give me hope when other wives are not having that loving feeling. And to know, that someday, it will get easier again.

Tell me what the most challenging project has been for you. I know I would feel better.


Kathi Lipp is the author of 17 books including Overwhelmed, Clutter Free, The Get Yourself Organized Project, The Husband Project, Happy Habits for Every Couple, and I Need Some Help Here – Hope for When Your Kids Don’t Go According to Plan. She is the host of Clutter Free Academy the Podcast! with Kathi Lipp and speaks at conferences across the US. Kathi is published with Revell Publishers and Harvest House Publishers.

She and her husband Roger are the parents of four young adults in San Jose, CA. When she’s not dating her husband or hanging out with her puggle Jake, Kathi is speaking at retreats, conferences and women’s events across the US.
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