Intimacy is much more than a physical act in your relationship with your husband. For him, it is also emotional.
As we prepare for Proverbs 31 Ministries Online Bible Study of The Husband Project, Erin and I talk with the author of Through a Man’s Eyes: Helping Women Understand the Visual Nature of Men, Shaunti Feldhahn, in order to better understand how men’s brains are wired for intimacy. When we know what is important to men and why, it helps us to better understand how we can best help them to make a stronger marriage.
The Husband Project Online Bible Study starts today, June 20th. Sign up HERE.
Do you want to enjoy a fantastic relationship with your spouse or significant other? Maybe you’ve sincerely tried, but there’s still too much conflict or confusion. Or maybe you have a good relationship, and want it to be great.
Relationships can be transformed when we suddenly “get” something we just didn’t realize before! Below is a sampling of some key “aha moments” about men, women and marriage from Shaunti Feldhahn’s 10 years of research with 10,000 men and women. There are always exceptions, though, so the key is to learn your partner. (Note: this simple overview doesn’t address deep systemic problems such as abuse or addiction.)
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You already know that your husband, boyfriend, or son is wired differently from you, but do you know what that really means? It means, among other things, that he’s been given the gift of a unique visual wiring—and the challenges that come with it.
In Through a Man’s Eyes, Shaunti Feldhahn and Craig Gross team up to help open our eyes to something we are often blind to. They address questions like:
· “Why are guys so visual—and what does that mean, anyway?”
· “How do I help my son navigate this sex-crazed culture?”
· “How dare someone tell a woman to watch what she wears! Isn’t it a man’s responsibility not to look?”
· “If he’s tempted by visual images, is there something wrong with him? With me?”
· “My husband is an honorable guy, so why would he be tempted by porn?”
· “How can I talk to my husband or son about this? What can I do to support him?”
Through the compassion and candor in this book, we can learn what men have long wished we knew (but didn’t know how to explain)—and see the difference it makes when we do!