If you're looking for help to get you "up and running" here's a great book to check out by Dr. Kevin Leman.
Here is the description on Amazon:
For married couples and those engaged to be married, Sheet Music is a practical guide to sex according to God’s plan. In his characteristic style, Kevin Leman addresses a wide spectrum of people, from those with no sexual experiences to those with past sexual problems or even abuse. Using frank descriptions and black-and-white line drawings, this book has a warm and friendly tone that will help couples overcome awkwardness in discussing an issue important to all married couples.
What a great Christmas gift to give to both of you.
I just recently read Sheet Music and It is an awesome book! Every married couple should read it, I think. It is the first Christian book I have read about marriage and sex that is real and doesn’t side step issues dealing with sex. It is very inspiring!
Another great book on the subject is “Love Life For Every Married Couple” by Dr. Ed Wheat.